The most important thing is to have the goal in mind, not the failures. Don't beat yourself up. Forget the times you fall short of your ideal: the more worthy the ideal, the more often one falls short. It's the ideal and the striving *for* it that are important.
Thank you very much for your support, PL! You are right, of course. But I didn't fail, yet. And I got lucky yesterday. Twice! Before I told her of my plea! That is, I told her after the first time, and that made me get lucky the second time. It was very good, but not so good as I had imagined, I admit. I'll have to make her understand that she mustn't make it too easy for me. Whether it's her, or me, or us being together for so long already, she seems to be content with having sex once a week, or less, while I am horny every day. So making me wait longer shouldn't be so difficult for her. And there are ways, of course, of pleasuring her without me coming. I am looking forward to it. Who'd imagined that this blog would do some good to our love life and not the contrary?!
I have the opposite problem: my wife loves to come, but seems to have no interest in my body. I enjoy myself at the time, but long-term it becomes a chore --- or at least, it doesn't suggest itself to me in the same way, if you see what I mean. Consequently, we do it rarely.
Anyway, I do hope you'll be telling us a bit more about your love life (as well as your wonderful stories)!
The most important thing is to have the goal in mind, not the failures. Don't beat yourself up. Forget the times you fall short of your ideal: the more worthy the ideal, the more often one falls short. It's the ideal and the striving *for* it that are important.
ReplyDeleteThank you very much for your support, PL! You are right, of course. But I didn't fail, yet. And I got lucky yesterday. Twice! Before I told her of my plea! That is, I told her after the first time, and that made me get lucky the second time.
ReplyDeleteIt was very good, but not so good as I had imagined, I admit. I'll have to make her understand that she mustn't make it too easy for me. Whether it's her, or me, or us being together for so long already, she seems to be content with having sex once a week, or less, while I am horny every day. So making me wait longer shouldn't be so difficult for her. And there are ways, of course, of pleasuring her without me coming. I am looking forward to it. Who'd imagined that this blog would do some good to our love life and not the contrary?!
My pleasure, and long may it continue! :)
ReplyDeleteI have the opposite problem: my wife loves to come, but seems to have no interest in my body. I enjoy myself at the time, but long-term it becomes a chore --- or at least, it doesn't suggest itself to me in the same way, if you see what I mean. Consequently, we do it rarely.
Anyway, I do hope you'll be telling us a bit more about your love life (as well as your wonderful stories)!